Pets and Children Playing and Growing Together

As a parent with pets and children in the same house, you probably know by now that pets are a huge a part of your kids’ lives. That is why it is important that you are involved in discussion and planning that will eventually lead to a positive result and experience for everyone involved. There are many valuable lessons that a child may learn through interaction with pets. When a child treats a pet with care, kindness, and patience, the child will also be learning how to handle and treat people. He will be prepared well to relate with people in the right way, portraying virtues of respect and care.

The child will also learn how to be responsible through interaction with pets. Before you decide to get your children a pet they have always wanted, you need to lay down some ground rules for them to follow. Since they want to keep the pets, they will have to abide by the rules you establish. This way, they will be learning how to be responsible while still enjoying their furry friend.

Children should also be taught the right way to play with pets. With these skills, there will be safe interaction and relationship between pets and children. The children should be told clearly that provoking their pets by handling it the wrong way may just turn tragic. You, as a parent should learn safety tips for interaction between the pets and children. These safety tips should be passed down to the children to ensure that they are safe at all times. Research is the key when it comes to these safety tips.

Research will also come in handy in terms of finding the right pet breeds known to be good with children. It does not matter the type of pet; finding the right breeds for your children is important. Choosing a pet that is right in terms of your lifestyle, your family, and home is important. You should go for a pet that isn’t intimidating to your children. Getting the children a pet they can maintain is the right way to go. Aggressive pets will only work negatively in all you will be trying to achieve with your children, apart from scaring them. Exotic pets like chameleons, frogs, etc., are very hard to care for, hence when making such decisions, a lot of care should be practiced.

Caring of pets can help in the development of social skills among children. However, there are some guidelines that you as a parent should apply for this to be possible. Children, especially those under the age of 3-4 years, need to be supervised at all times as they interact with their pets as they are not mature enough to control of their physical movements and impulses.

Children who grow in a family with pets tend to portray some characteristics that are unique in all ways. These children usually have a high self esteem and confidence. The positive relations they have had with pets will influence their developed trust when relating with others. Non-verbal communications, as well as the virtues of empathy and compassion, mature well within such children.

Tips for Choosing a Family Pet

For families who are considering choosing a family pet, you should consider an animal that all members of the family are going to enjoy. There are many different animals that could make a great pet, from dogs and cats, to turtles or other small rodents (hamsters, mice, etc). So, before making the choice, families should consider all options, and ask all family members what they would like best, prior to selecting the animal to bring home as a first pet.

When you have smaller children, a pet that is interactive, loving, and fun to play with might be the best option to look for when choosing a family pet. Dogs are probably the best option, especially with younger kids. Breeds like Retrievers are probably the nicest breed, as they are loving, will play with the kids, and are caring pets. For those who want a house pet, a cat or other pets like a turtle might be a great choice. They are small, inside animals, and are easy to care for. Additionally, they keep to themselves, and do not make a mess in areas other than the designated liter box or cages.

Introducing Your Pet to the Family

After choosing a family pet, you have to know how to introduce it in to your family. With younger kids, you are going to want to bring the dog (or other pet) in slowly. You should let the pet learn its way through the home, get used to the family members, and most importantly, go at its own pace. Making sure the kids do not move too quickly and trying not to force the pet to do things it does not want to do is also important. Letting the pet get accustomed to his/her surroundings, where they will live, and who the owners are, is an extremely important part of the introduction process.

Interaction

Once the pet has made itself comfortable with the home, the kids, and owners, you can now start allowing the kids to interact and play with the pet. Especially with dogs, as they are so loving and interactive, once they know who the owner is, they are extremely loyal. Playing out in the yard, inside, or anywhere else the pet is allowed to be, is suggested, so that the dog learns who the owners are and how to play and interact with them. With younger kids, parents must be around early on to ensure the kids do not do something to irritate the pet, which may cause it to lash out in defense.

There is no one set way to introduce the pet in to the home; you have to give it time to get accustomed to the family, its new home, and surroundings. After choosing a family pet, give it a few days to learn who will be caring for it and that it is now living in a caring home. From there on, each family will go about interaction, caring for, and playing with their pets in a different manner than other families.

If your new pet still seems a bit stressed and is not adjusting well, pick up our guide to the upper right of this page titled “10 Ways Your Pet Can Become Stressed and What You Can Do About It.” Apply the techniques we suggest and your pet will be on its way to feeling right at home.

How to Choose a Child-Friendly Pet

If you are a parent who has made the decision to introduce a pet to your family in the near future, then of course your main priority is going to be to find kid-friendly pets that will get along with your children nicely. After all, the last thing that you want to have to deal with is an aggressive pet that your children cannot even get close to or have fun playing with. The good news, though, is that there are all kinds of pets that are great with kids, so it is really just a matter of considering your family’s own circumstances and choosing the one that is going to be best for all of you.

If you are looking for something that is easy to take care of, completely safe and friendly around children, and inexpensive to care for, then you may want to consider something as simple as a fish or several of them. These make great first pets for children as a way to teach them responsibility, while still being fun. On top of this, they are simply kept in a tank at all times, so you never have to worry about your child being hurt by the animal.

Watch this cute video on how to choose a child friendly pet!

However, for those who are looking for a pet that is a little more interactive and that the family can play with more, then you may want to consider a pet such as a cat or dog. Either of these can make great first pets for any family, but there are some specific breeds that you may want to keep in mind when choosing either a dog or a cat.

Cats are generally great pets for families who want to be able to have a fun and interactive pet, without having to worry about taking the pet everywhere they go. Cats are very independent, but they still love to play, especially when they are kittens. Still, to keep them kid-friendly, it is best to stick with a breed such as a Tabby or Calico, and to consider getting the cats declawed when they are young. Not only will this prevent cat scratches in the future, but it can also save your furniture. One breed of cats to stay away from if you have children is a Siamese cat, as these can be very needy and sometimes a little overwhelming for those who already have children.

Dogs also make great pets for families because they are energetic and always by your side. Not to mention, they love to play and spend time outside, play fetch, and go for walks. Some specifically good breeds to consider for families with children are:

  • Labrador Retriever
  • Dachshund
  • Dalmatian
  • Bull Dog
  • Beagle
  • Bull Terrier
  • Collie
  • Irish Setter
  • Poodle
  • Golden Retriever

Overall, choosing a family pet for the first time can be very exciting, but it is always best to consider your family’s specific expectations and wants for the pet. On top of this, taking the time to visit the pet a few times in its shelter or pet store before taking it home is a great way to ensure that you are making the right choice.